Men Who Don't Mind

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Comment by Mark S. Hansen on August 4, 2010 at 2:21pm

My name is Mark. I am 54, single, and never married. I have had aleopcia universalis or over 40 years. I wore a wig for about 35 years until I finally took it off about 6 years ago. The wig never really did anything for my social life because I had to tell the women anyways, sooner or later. Since I took it off it has not gotten any better. I would like to meet some women, some day, who "do not mind." But I won't hold my breath.
Marky218

Comment by Ted Michael Morgan on July 10, 2010 at 7:50am

I like Cheryl's response to my question. I do not date and have not in a long time. I am 67-years-old. At my age, many things have happened to me and will happens as well as to the women I know. I had my own problems when I was younger and dating ane during a long marriage. I am not looking to find women or a woman with this or that trait. Lovemaps probably do exist, but I think that they probably also change as we mature throughout life. Life very much is a mystery to be lived (as one of my favoutite writers once said), not a problem to be solved.

Comment by Sami Tarhuni on June 8, 2010 at 6:03am

I dont mind, Ive been fighting my corner on my own for to long so if i had a woman behind me bald or not it would mean a hell of alot. Bald is better, and for some reason me being bald has always made me look people in the eye more. I never notice when people have had their hair cut and hair is not needed to make a nice looking woman, beaughty is a thing we are either born with or not and its our body which makes us attractive and our facial feratures so a bald woman would do me fine, we would have nothing between us and I would not worry about wat she thinks of me being bald and neither should she. Besides if anyone took the piss out of my bald girlfriend I would love to come out of my corner and knock em out for my bald princess. Sami T (From A Naturaly Bald World)x

Comment by Cheryl, Co-founder on May 28, 2010 at 9:24am

Ted that is a really interesting question, maybe it should be a discussion in this section. and not just a comment. I believe I want the man to find me physically attractive. Meaning whether I am alopecic like now, or grow my hair back tomorrow. When people date outside of alopecia, a person can change their hairstyle, color ect. a lot during a long term relationship and the physical attraction shouldn't change. I have seen rj both with a beard and without and my attraction to him does not change, I may prefer one to the other, but the attraction remains. So, basically I am saying that I don't want it to be any "one" thing that attracts, but me as a whole. Hope that makes sense. But I do like the fact that rj does like my look, which includes my alopecia.

Comment by Ted Michael Morgan on May 27, 2010 at 8:32am

If you have alopecia, do you prefer a lover to find your baldness attractive or do you prefer that the lover merely accepts your baldness?

Comment by Sam Sam on March 10, 2010 at 4:01pm

Dating was hard for me in the start, until i realized it was me holding myself back. I also have a way of telling guys (only after we have expressed feelings for each other/knowing it will be long term) .

Most of them if not all of them did not care.... one even stopped me in the middle of telling him i have alpoecia he said...“I don’t care about your hair status. wigs weaves, bald... as long as it looks good.” Another “I am not with you for your hair.” And another “I never knew, but I care about you not your hair.”

I have learned that Men stay if they like YOU for YOU, do not force it that applies to every area not just hair.

Regarding appearance all of those guys had met me with a wig on and could careless after knowing me.

I have never dated while being bald. THAT IS A JOURNEY TO COME(If my hair does not grow back , yes I still hope!) I want to go on a date with a guy bald and not care and him not to care to enjoy a night .:

Comment by Mark S. Hansen on March 4, 2010 at 3:29pm

I have never actually personally known a woman who I know has alopecia expect at a support group about 12 years ago. Oddly enough every woman there, one was about 55, and the other few who had alopecia were married. Whereas I admit that because of my condition, loss of all body hair at about 15 (I am 54 now) I was inhibited from approaching more women throughout my life when I wore my wig for 35 years and when I finally took it off about 6 years ago. However, in all my experiences in attempting to ask women out, over the years, I have not yet to this day met a woman to whom my condition did not matter. Tothis day I am single, never married, and I have never had a girlfriend, or a relationship in my life. I won't say that is 100 percent of the reason there are always issues compatability, career path differences etc. But all in all in my experiences, it (my condition) has always mattered. Generally speaking (and I think that women will probably disagree highly with this but in my expeirences, being a member of a number of on line dating sites as well, women are much less liberal and much much more particular about looks than men are about women. Mark.

Comment by Andy Hill on February 22, 2010 at 12:21am

Bald is Beautiful! Why cover up the natural beauty?

Comment by Christy Cyphers on February 1, 2010 at 4:27pm

Leon spoke some very true words.....
You have to know you're worth first and then you'll attract beauty around you!!
these, are the very true words I am living my life by today...for whenever a man may see the worst in me..or uglyness, God see's the best in me and all in HIS timming will the man HE has for me come into my life!!

Comment by MiNAH on February 1, 2010 at 7:50am

Leon,
They didn't break up with me...I finally saw the light and new that it was time to stop being degraded, humiliated, disrespected, defiled as the list goes on.
I wont allow anyone to discredit my worth.
So I ended the abuse once and for all!
No person has the right to take away ones dignity and innate being.
Life is meant to be lived.

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