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Comment by Ted Michael Morgan on December 14, 2011 at 7:49am

Hair is not what necessary makes someone beautiful. I HAVE a lot of hair and I'm not pretty.

Comment by Ted Michael Morgan on December 14, 2011 at 7:47am

There are people (who otherwise might be quite “normal”, kindly, and even nice) who find bald women (or men too, for some folks, I would think) both attractive and erotic, though as with all people not everyone bald is found attractive or erotic. It is difficult to know how to relate to people who have alopecia or other conditions that cause female baldness without being offensive or seeming perverted or offensive. I do not come here to lurk or lust. In fact, I rarely come to this site, but I have learned during the past 30 plus years how distressing alopecia is to almost all who have it. I have found bald women attractive from childhood and that means for many decades.

Comment by Cheryl, Co-founder on October 4, 2011 at 7:49pm

Daniel, I would have to agree with you. I know sometimes I get the "your pretty" as if they are surprised. I don't think it is ONLY strands of hair that make a person beautiful. I think any difference can be used to an advantage, something that makes you stand out from the rest.

Comment by rj, Co-founder on April 28, 2011 at 1:40am

It has certainly been some time since this group was active. But given our community's unique need for voices of acceptance, I think it's high time for the group "Men Who Don't Mind" to revive itself. What do you the rest of the members of this group think?

Comment by Mark S. Hansen on August 4, 2010 at 2:21pm

My name is Mark. I am 54, single, and never married. I have had aleopcia universalis or over 40 years. I wore a wig for about 35 years until I finally took it off about 6 years ago. The wig never really did anything for my social life because I had to tell the women anyways, sooner or later. Since I took it off it has not gotten any better. I would like to meet some women, some day, who "do not mind." But I won't hold my breath.
Marky218

Comment by Ted Michael Morgan on July 10, 2010 at 7:50am

I like Cheryl's response to my question. I do not date and have not in a long time. I am 67-years-old. At my age, many things have happened to me and will happens as well as to the women I know. I had my own problems when I was younger and dating ane during a long marriage. I am not looking to find women or a woman with this or that trait. Lovemaps probably do exist, but I think that they probably also change as we mature throughout life. Life very much is a mystery to be lived (as one of my favoutite writers once said), not a problem to be solved.

Comment by Sami Tarhuni on June 8, 2010 at 6:03am

I dont mind, Ive been fighting my corner on my own for to long so if i had a woman behind me bald or not it would mean a hell of alot. Bald is better, and for some reason me being bald has always made me look people in the eye more. I never notice when people have had their hair cut and hair is not needed to make a nice looking woman, beaughty is a thing we are either born with or not and its our body which makes us attractive and our facial feratures so a bald woman would do me fine, we would have nothing between us and I would not worry about wat she thinks of me being bald and neither should she. Besides if anyone took the piss out of my bald girlfriend I would love to come out of my corner and knock em out for my bald princess. Sami T (From A Naturaly Bald World)x

Comment by Cheryl, Co-founder on May 28, 2010 at 9:24am

Ted that is a really interesting question, maybe it should be a discussion in this section. and not just a comment. I believe I want the man to find me physically attractive. Meaning whether I am alopecic like now, or grow my hair back tomorrow. When people date outside of alopecia, a person can change their hairstyle, color ect. a lot during a long term relationship and the physical attraction shouldn't change. I have seen rj both with a beard and without and my attraction to him does not change, I may prefer one to the other, but the attraction remains. So, basically I am saying that I don't want it to be any "one" thing that attracts, but me as a whole. Hope that makes sense. But I do like the fact that rj does like my look, which includes my alopecia.

Comment by Ted Michael Morgan on May 27, 2010 at 8:32am

If you have alopecia, do you prefer a lover to find your baldness attractive or do you prefer that the lover merely accepts your baldness?

Comment by Sam Sam on March 10, 2010 at 4:01pm

Dating was hard for me in the start, until i realized it was me holding myself back. I also have a way of telling guys (only after we have expressed feelings for each other/knowing it will be long term) .

Most of them if not all of them did not care.... one even stopped me in the middle of telling him i have alpoecia he said...“I don’t care about your hair status. wigs weaves, bald... as long as it looks good.” Another “I am not with you for your hair.” And another “I never knew, but I care about you not your hair.”

I have learned that Men stay if they like YOU for YOU, do not force it that applies to every area not just hair.

Regarding appearance all of those guys had met me with a wig on and could careless after knowing me.

I have never dated while being bald. THAT IS A JOURNEY TO COME(If my hair does not grow back , yes I still hope!) I want to go on a date with a guy bald and not care and him not to care to enjoy a night .:

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