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I'm a mother of 6 wonderful children 2 boys 4 girls! I was born in and grew up in Utah. I have alopecia on my legs but what girl wouldn't want hairless legs! Anyway my youngest has Alopcia…Continue
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How are you and your daughter today? Hey, I have AU, too.
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Marissa said… hi,
your little girl is absolutely gorgeous!! i lost my hair when i was 4 years old and i can really tell you i don't even remember how it was to have hair. so yes it is definitely a lot easier to lose your hair when you are so young.
We hope she out grows it, that would be awesome. but if she doesn't don't despair!!! just remember to love her and support her! remember to teach her the very important lesson: it's not what's on the outside, but the inside that counts. "
If you love yourself and feel happy inside, your looks won't make a difference...the love and happiness will shine through and she will be an inspiration for others!!!
I only wore a wig when I was little and when it was winter, because my mom was scared that I would get cold! I didn't like it very much, and it was itchy!! but let your daughter decide what she is most comfortable with. support her in her decision!!
And unfortunately there will always be some people and other kids who will say or do something hurtful because she does not have hair. In my experience the children mostly teased when they did not understand. Help your daughter to explain her hair loss in her own words when she is a bit older, this will help her a lot. People are mostly afraid of the unknown, but once they understand they will be more considered.
there will be some people that will just keep on staring...i find a smile in their directions works best! :) others will just keep on feeling uncomfortable and they will not know how to behave in your daughter's presence...don't worry too much about them. It is their problem and their own insecurities. Let them be...for every one person not able to except your daughter just as she is...she will have a least 3 friends who love her just a much!!!
I must tell you that in my own life my friends and family have said over the years that they don't even notice the alopecia any more. For laughs I will sometimes ask a friend to lend me her hair brush and as she hands it to me she says, ah no Marissa!!! :)
ps: when she starts going to school, ask to speak to the principle and the teachers. Also explain to them her alopecia. People can say and do strange and hurtful things when they are not informed.
I wish you all of the best!!
Marissa
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