"Jess, I would have to confront him about the fb messages, but in a nice way. If he truly loves you, you not having hair will be no problem. If he can't accept this, you're better off without him."
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Need advice
Started this discussion. Last reply by Ktownnana Jan 31. 13 Replies 1 Favorite
so there's this guy that i worked with over the summer and we really hit it off. we still talk everyday almost despite going to school in different states. whenever we're both home, we make an effort…Continue
Tips for college student?
Started this discussion. Last reply by kaitlin lavin Aug 22, 2011. 4 Replies 0 Favorites
Hi all,I am an incoming freshman this fall, and I'm not sure what I will be doing with my wig while in the dorms. My roommates know about my alopecia, and they obviously don't care about it, but I'm…Continue
Laser treatment
Started this discussion. Last reply by Brenda Knihinicki Sep 7, 2011. 11 Replies 0 Favorites
I was just wondering if anyone has tried laser treatment. I went for a first visit today and sat under a hair dryer type of thing for 40 minutes. The woman said she has had people with alopecia come…Continue
Iindividual fake eyelashes vs. string of eyelash
Started this discussion. Last reply by Sam Sam Apr 19, 2011. 4 Replies 0 Favorites
hi...today i bought a pack of individual eyelashes because i thought it would be more realistic. but, with these you have to attach them to the eyelash hairs you do have. although having alopecia, i…Continue
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BTB (John) replied to jess's discussion Need advice"If he never sees he consequences of his behavior he will never change and he will do this horrible thing to someone else. Confrontation is hard but necessary in cases where we are wronged. Noone deserve to be humiliated."
jess replied to jess's discussion Need advice"Thank you so much for your help everyone I really appreciate it. I haven't confronted him yet because I'm not sure how to approach it. He still texts me every day but I know I shouldn't talk to him. I just don't know how to…"
Alina07 replied to jess's discussion Need advice"If I were in your shoes I'd delete him and stop talking to him. I don't care if he was showing off or joking with friends, it's not funny. If he can't stand up for you now, while you guys are just friends he won't do it…"
Cheryl, Co-founder replied to jess's discussion Need advice"Jess, it seems to me like he is immature and may not be a strong enough man to deal with a woman with alopecia. Martin Luther King Jr. said "“The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but…"
BTB (John) replied to jess's discussion Need advice"Yeah what Cindy said its so male to talk that way."
cindy Babs replied to jess's discussion Need advice"I would confront him as well. Irregardless of the alopecia issue "guys" talk like that with their "guys". if it wasn't hair loss it would b some other physical attribute they would b making fun of. Do u want to b with…"
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so there's this guy that i worked with over the summer and we really hit it off. we still talk everyday almost despite going to school in different states. whenever we're both home, we make an effort into seeing each other. he's always been really nice to me and never done anything mean.now, last night i came across some facebook messages with him and his friend. i know this is bad, but i couldn't resist. it turns out they call me "baldy" and saying pretty gross and sexual things about…See More
BTB (John) replied to jess's discussion Need advice"What Sarah said is so true. Be proactive if you hide form this you will hide all your life, well that was what I did."
Sarah replied to jess's discussion Need advice"Hi there! I think you should voice your feelings to this guy, your feelings are important and are not to be swept under the rug. By doing this he has betrayed your friendship and it's not fair to make you feel bad for something that is out of…"
BTB (John) replied to jess's discussion Need advice"As a man I find it offensive that anyone would talk about that way. Males who do this are shallow and weak. It is my opinion a hurtful betrayal of trust."
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so there's this guy that i worked with over the summer and we really hit it off. we still talk everyday almost despite going to school in different states. whenever we're both home, we make an effort into seeing each other. he's always been really nice to me and never done anything mean.now, last night i came across some facebook messages with him and his friend. i know this is bad, but i couldn't resist. it turns out they call me "baldy" and saying pretty gross and sexual things about…See More
Brenda Knihinicki replied to jess's discussion Laser treatment"My daughter has been going for laser treatments fo almost a year and has regained growth on her entire head. She previously had no hair growth for 2-3 years. She is still going and has to for the rest of her life. The hair now is like baby hair, but…"
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- About Me:
- -Hair started to fall out at age 16 (Spring 2010)
-Shaved it (July 2010)
-Lots of regrowth!
- Do you have alopecia?
- Alopecia areata
- Are you age 18 or older?
- Yes - I am 18 or older
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- At 12:35pm on June 17, 2010,
LeslieAnn Butler said…
- Hello and welcome, Jess!
I'm sorry you're having a hard time. Let me know if I can help. I wrote a book about alopecia called "If Your Hair Falls Out, Keep Dancing!'
Hugs!
LeslieAnn
- At 10:36pm on June 13, 2010,
sean franklin said… - welcome to alopecia world jess!
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