Here's is a list of the top 10 reasons my woman's alopecia and baldness are non-issues for me. After reading my list, please let me know other reasons men shouldn't judge women by the hair on their heads, or the lack thereof.

1. There's no such thing as a man of substance in bondage to banality.

2. A woman can be alopecic and adorable.

3. Bald is beautiful, too.

4. To wig or not to the wig is not the most important question.

5. Hair, or the lack thereof, is no window to the soul.

6. Hair means nothing on an empty head.

7. Loving for a mere list of reasons renders such love as eradicable as the reasons themselves.

8. Which is better for the heart: Locks or love?

9. Better to cope with your woman's so-called hairmare than wake up every day in a relationship that's a living nightmare.

10. I want to spend my life with a phenomenal woman that can stand strong regardless of whether or not her hair falls out.

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Indeed, hair is only hair. by definition on the outside of a person. Hair does not define who we are, though it can be an expression of who we want others to think we are. If you think about the qualities that make a woman sexy (smooth, curvy, unique) wouldn't that make an Alopecian woman MORE sexy? I'd say so. Also, if you think about the aspects of a person that make them interesting (being different, having dealt with adversity and change, etc) wouldn't that give an Alopecian woman a greater depth of character?


There are no reasons needed to love. Love either is.. or isn't.
I think in any type of relationship what really counts is nature and character. Hair and beauty is for some time and after a particular age, it gets fade.

If a person does not care for what you are naturaly then I do not think that it is a true relationship. You hide your identity and then show off that does not mean that person likes you make sure coz that person likes then one who is showing off and not the natural one.

So be natural and show what exactly what you are and do not imitate that’s what I believe in.
Believe in natural beauty and life will love you.
Yes, Jack, a visceral and unfathomable "connection" rather than mere compatibility or chemistry. ;-)
Thanks, Philip. :-)
i want a husband like you!! haha. hopefulllly, i will find one day find one- obviously not now as im too young to get married hhha.
Sophs, as you grow older and wiser, just be sure to embody the good that you hope and expect to find in a mate. ;-)
I would like to applaud this top ten list. I put myself in her shoes. I think to myself if I had anything affecting me, how would she respond? She would be right by my side as well....I fell in love with her...the woman, the love of my life, my inspiration, the artistic genius. I fell in love with her personality, her heart, her passion, her smile, her intelligence.

I'm lucky and thankful to have her in my life :-)
Bogopaisa, thanks for reminder of the important role empathy -- and not just sympathy -- can play in enhancing and enriching a love relationship. :-)
Wow, I hope that my next husband will encompass all of your top 10 reasons that alopecia is not an issue to him and then some!! Thank God for men like you!!
Deneene, thank you very much for such kind and encouraging words. I certainly wish you a lovetime of true acceptance, bliss, peace, wisdom and prosperity. :-)
Trust me sister. Your comfort level with yourself will always have to take first place. A lot of men can pick up if a woman doesn't feel good about herself.
I agfee totally.

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