So as I said in my past blog, my hair is gone again. People at my job for the most part all know I have Alopecia, I can't give it to them, and I don't hide my head under scarves and hats and wigs, its just not me. I'm comfortable with myself and the way I look...so anyways I work in the mailroom of a large government building, so I see lots of people a day. This guy from our IT department, that I see a LOT since hes 2 offices down from me and is always shipping computer equipment, came in and the first thing he says is, "Oh...your bald again." I just kind of looked at him, and said 'yea, it feel out again." Then he asked me if I'm going to buy any wigs. I told him no, they itch, and I just don't feel comfortable in them. He then hands me a box, says "I'm sure your boyfriend would prefer you to wear a wig, I know I would." and walked out of the mailroom...ummm...first off, thank GOD I am NOT your girlfriend!!! Second off...that wasn't a very nice thing to say...was he trying to say I look ugly bald? Luckily my goal in life is not to impress him, because apparently I would be failing miserably. I get compliments on my look and my confidence all the time, but when someone says something like that, THATS what gets stuck in my head. One negative takes up the space of all the positives. I told my boyfriend later on in the car and he looked at me and said, "I love you bald or with hair down to your feet, your hair doesn't make you the person you are." Even after my boyfriends kind words, I was still a little mad about what the guy said. I honestly think some people need to go back to a kindergarden classroom so a teacher can tell them what they should already know...If you don't have anything nice to say, KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT!!! I might have changed that around a little bit...but you get what I'm saying ;) Hope everyone is doing well!!