This is completely off topic and doesn't have to do with hair but I have to write about this to get it off of my chest. I don't understand why ex-boyfriends want to stay in contact at times. I have heard several times that men & women can't be just friends especially if they have slept together & I believe it. One of my ex-boyfriend's and I broke up a little over a year ago (This was our second time of being together, I have known him for about 6 years). He wanted to stay friends after we broke up but I felt like I couldn't be friends so that I could move on from him. About 5 months ago he contacted me to say hi and see how I was doing. After a few messages back & forth, that was it. We hadn't talked since then. Then, out of the blue yesterday afternoon, I got a message on Facebook from him that asked how I was doing. I replied earlier today saying that I am really good. Then not even an hour later, he replied saying that he has a fiance that is 2 months pregnant. I am in shock! That happened fast. I guess the saying is true.. when you know, you know. First of all, I'm thinking why in the hell is he contacting me when he has a pregnant fiance! He shouldn't be trying to be friends with me. If I was in his shoes, I wouldn't be contacting an ex girlfriend. He has said ever since I have known him that we would be friends forever but he just doesn't understand that I can't be friends with him. Maybe a few years later after I have moved on completely, but he hasn't given me enough time yet. He has always been the one to contact me out of the blue. I don't understand why he can't just accept that I can't be friends with him and let me be! Maybe I should change my name on Facebook, then he would have no way to find me. I am happy for him and his fiance. That is wondeful but I can't help but think... go away! :) Was it really necessary to contact me 5 months later and tell me he is engaged & expecting! I'm thinking.. tell your other friends, I'm not your friend. He lives far away from me so thank goodness, I could never run into him. He has always known exactly how I feel about him so why can't he have enough generosity to accept that I don't want to be friends. I will never understand men/boys! This kind of stuff reminds me why I enjoy being single!!