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Black-Brown, Kinky-Curly Human Hair for Bonded System?

Started this discussion. Last reply by scarredbeauty May 24, 2017. 1 Reply

Hi All, Long story short: after research I decided that I'd like my first ever replacement hair to be...-a bonded -full lace -hand-tied -human hair wig that is-shoulder length -black/brown, and…Continue

Best NoVA/DC area medical hair studios?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Alo-mom Mar 9, 2018. 13 Replies

Guys! Guys.Ophiasic as heck over here these days. Really feeling like I am finally ready to bite the bullet and get a great wig. Tired of the (mostly passable) craft project that my self-styled hair…Continue

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A Search for Purpose.

Posted on October 2, 2017 at 2:20am 15 Comments

It's way past my 9-5 working person's bedtime, so this may or may not be coherent. I just feel compelled to throw it out there rather than keep it rolling around between my ears.

I have a job that's nowhere near anything I went to school for. I was lucky to get it right before the financial crisis, it's done a lot of great things for me, and it's stable, but it's not the kind of thing I see myself doing forever (though the fact I've stayed in it the better part of 10 years would…



Posted on September 20, 2017 at 8:25pm 0 Comments

When you have as little as I did, and after twelve years, this feels like a bit of an afterthought.

I don't look quite as objectively good like this as I had hoped - and to top it off, I greatly prefer one side of my face/head to the other! - but, eh. It's mainly an attitude anyways XD…


A Lifetime of Doing Things the Hard Way.

Posted on July 31, 2017 at 1:00am 1 Comment

(Repost from 7/22 as I accidentally deleted it before… also, update follows)

I’m pretty much the queen of being matter-of-fact about difficult things. My alopecia is no exception. Maybe I always had a lot of other stuff going on, but I viewed it as one thing among many. I’ve probably been guilty of the kind of minimizing a lot of alopecians hate, of the “It’s just hair” variety.

In romantic relationships, though, I never put my money where my mouth was, preferring to leave… Continue

Well I'll Be. (A chronicle for other curly girls out there.)

Posted on July 17, 2017 at 10:30pm 0 Comments

My first attempt at reclaiming my nearly-black 3B hair: Valentina by Outre. Extremely high density, despite how it might photograph. Has a different curl pattern in the underneath layer that is very thick and sort of boosts up the rest of it. Great looking but a little too Afro to pass off as my bio hair.

Second attempt: HH Brazilian Curl by It's a Wig. Very long, needs trimming, rough lace and lousy severe hairline right out of the box, but texture pretty soft for a synthetic…


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