Is it possible to have sex with your wig on?

Hey I am freaking out, this might sound weird but I am thinking to have an affair NOT a relationship that is why Telling him I am almost bald is out of question. But I want to go for it. My main issue is is I can wear a wig during sex. Ladies Have you?? If it is a non adhesive lace wig where you could eventually use tape or glue will it be enough for a night?

Any ideas on how to handle it, maybe I should tell him not to pull my hair? or it will be too obvious?

Please help me out here!

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Comment by Norm on December 7, 2010 at 6:52pm
Ermmm.... just to take a step back, Grace, but why is telling him you're bald a no-no? It might not be an issue for him, in which case, this whole question is moot....
Nosy Norm :)
Comment by Tallgirl on December 7, 2010 at 8:30pm
If the wig is felt, just say you are more interested in him than your condition, and you hope he feels the same. On the other hand, go watch the movie Children of a Lesser God, and make sure YOU are not tallying up a bunch of mindless affairs to punish yourself, score, forget, or prove something about your alopecia. You may regret it later when you catch something, give birth to something, or finally meet The One (and he rejects you and your loose history). Sometimes you have to think this one through thoroughly if you are NOT being honest, because some men LEAVE!!! How would you handle that? If you are afraid to tell because you might lose his interest, would you feel even worse if you had SUCH a good time or fell in love, and THEN he left? I think this is our eternal dilemma about affairs without truth.
Comment by Grace on December 7, 2010 at 9:18pm
Hi Guys! I have to say You have made me Breathe again.
To be honest I am not trying to proove anything, I just want to be ME again, and having a sexual incounter once in a while with a sex buddy is one of the things I saif bye bye since this happened.
So I have no clue how to handdle the wig thing. and It is not that I have an issue telling him, its just that I don't feel the need. He has not even noticed! and I am not planning to have a sentimental relationship with him... so I do not want to waste any emotions on this. Just have a good time, that all!
This is regular monofilament wig with a front Lace. It is meant to be used without glue or with glue in the front, and I wear it lwithout glue everyday. I have used Full lace wigs before but I quited cause they were tooo much hassle and too messy.
BUT I still have the blue, the adhesives and aaaallll the products. This will will be secured only from the top lace front... so Crossing my fingers it will Hold on to me!
Comment by Mike Staffieri RHN on December 7, 2010 at 9:43pm
just don't give him a hair job
Comment by susan williams on December 7, 2010 at 9:50pm
most men accept, false boobs, false nails, false eyelashes and false teeth so what the hell!!!

and this is coming from a newly diagnosed alopecian and damn well terrified, at least my humour is coming back lol
Comment by Grace on December 7, 2010 at 10:14pm
LOL Susan I am new to incorporating wigs to bed!! lol Keep on wondering how to trans gender do? I guess their partners already know they are wearing one.
And Mike, I have no idea how to give a hair job!jajaja Ohh wait Maybe because I do not have any!! LOL
Comment by Pat on December 7, 2010 at 11:07pm
Absolutely! The only down side is your attention could be on the wig NOT on where it should be!
Comment by Norm on December 8, 2010 at 7:42am
Hey Sue, I don't think you should get too worried over the alopecia and the possibility of needing false hair - you already seem to have quite a list going there, so what's another one? And I think you forgot the wooden leg and the glass eye, too ;)

Grace.... you seem to have thought this through, so have fun! Personally, I'd prefer the girl to not wear the wig. Then I could leave comments and a critique on her head :)
Comment by Grace on December 8, 2010 at 1:33pm
Yep I had several years to hesitate this and I think I am ready!, and after hearing it is possible I haver gathered my Ultra Hold Glue and some Adhesive and do some tests before, just to make sure It can hold on so I can alctually Relax that day a bit ;-)
Comment by Tallgirl on December 8, 2010 at 11:47pm
I always test myself this way: imagine the worst case scenario has already happened, and you must think or say something to yourself about it to get through it. Practice in front of a mirror, even to the point of controlling your face, mouth and tears. Then, if it really DOES go down wrong, at least you have rehearsed your response. You can then skulk off and freak out privately once the brave show is over.

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