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- Torrance, CA
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Kycie commented on LilyBell*Murphy'sLawLuvsMe's blog post Someone, anyone, please help me understand"I completely agree. I have been browsing around this site and must say AW has been a source of encouragement, and inspiration. Life is too precious to have a dark cloud floating around when others are trying to break through to see and feal healing…"
Kycie commented on brian kirchman's group Smooth and Single"Well..., I am almost laughing here imagining how your aunt would respond to my expression of sexuality."
Kycie commented on Kycie's blog post Blaming baldness, but what if?"I am not familiar; and will definately check this read out Lil. I am sitting in a hallway medical building nauseated either by being pregnant from this rape( which is one of three adult aquaintance rapes) and unfortunately about 9 years of…"
Kycie's blog post was featuredBlaming baldness, but what if?
I noticed today a new self- talk pattern that puts in question my self- worth. I have said this inside:"What if retail security followed me because if my mohawk? What if my hairloss did not happen; would she have put me down so often? What if my baldness angered him to rape me?"See More
Kycie replied to LilyBell*Murphy'sLawLuvsMe's discussion So why are there no men who 'prefer thinning hair'?"I get you on this Lily. Even in my mid to late 20s when I had long thick wavy hair , I felt similar feelings as my. Hair started falling. Unfortufortunately, being married did not change anything. In fact I started dating women and was encountering…"
Kycie commented on Pamela McGruder's blog post Why me Lord!!!!"I for one appreciate your honest vulnerability. The fact that you found the courage to be real, completely real with what your experiences have been, how they are effecting your sense of diminished self. I personaly feel the anger you are in touch…"
Kycie commented on SilkHead's blog post Attaining Freedom"I am trying to understand a self- referencing; " that life is less than a struggle and you enjoy ( Every) moment. But you do mention " Good and Bad" days. So help me out here, please. I am confused. Are you saying that now after 10…"
Kycie added a discussion to the group Orange County
Why Do I Care?
I ask myself often in different situations: why do I care care what this person thinks of me without a wig on? And.., how would I really know a stranger validation of internal thought perceptions if he or she walked by? I am wondering now if the pangs of invalidation go beyound our hair gone past , will go in future, or gone to present. I admit, that in retrospect., I can feel socialy validated shopping within the mall ( affirming smiles, glances, friendly sicial exchanges) by passerbys, employees, ect(especialy when wearing my most expendsive trendy wig. But then..., when I take it off behind closed doors, the former validation from another has worn off and the next time I step out my door I feel emotionaly famished again. And the record keeps spinning; the scr atches continue...
Kycie joined Amy Evans's groupOrange County
A group for Orange County, Ca. or anyone who wants to join! I am fairly new to the area and wanted a group for anyone, ecspecially local people to talk. I would love to have a support group in the area to talk to others! Thanks!
Kycie commented on Lili's blog post Female Pattern Baldness- too young for this!"I can relate to everyones experiences. I am amazed at the candor, authentic self- revealing, and most importantly the uniqueness of expressive insights, compelling motivations, and recipricol caring. I am so appreciative and I am feeling less alone…"
Kycie commented on Lili's blog post Female Pattern Baldness- too young for this!"Two weeks ago I was talking to someone at one of my hangouts in San Pedro CA. ( one of those biker leather shops) I did a social experiment. I decided to spontaneously take my wig off without any commercial interference or public service…"
Lili commented on Kycie's blog post Blaming Baldness..., what if?"Hi Kycie, I've been raped before too, who knows why they do it! All I know is (from my own personal experience) there's no rhyme or reason that computes with my me. I remember turning myself inside out trying to figure it out in the past,…"
Kycie posted a status"I found the key. It was in the pocket of my faded ripped jean jacket. ( which is my favorite!!!"
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- My primary hair loss this past 18 months has been an emotional rollercoaster. I realized as I was reading the individual expressed vulnerabilities on this site, that I could stop silently struggling in my sense of shame based female identity.
- Do you have alopecia?
- Female pattern baldness
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Blaming baldness, but what if?
Posted on November 22, 2011 at 9:00pm 13 Comments 0 Favorites
I noticed today a new self- talk pattern that puts in question my self- worth. I have said this inside:"What if retail security followed me because if my mohawk? What if my hairloss did not happen; would she have put me down so often? What if my baldness angered him to rape me?"
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- At 7:08pm on November 24, 2011,
LilyBell*Murphy'sLawLuvsMe said… Now that is funny Sins !! You never fail to crack me up : )
Kycie I am glad you reported the crime - I hope it gives you a feeling of taking back your power from that sick monster.
- At 5:37pm on November 24, 2011,
Sinsemilla said…
- At 9:10pm on November 23, 2011,
Cheryl, Co-founder said… Hey Kycie, Looks like you are jumping in! Good for you and thanks for the friend request.
- At 6:19pm on October 15, 2011,
LeslieAnn Butler said…
- Hello and welcome, Kycie!
How are you today?
Leslie Ann
- At 11:54pm on October 13, 2011, Cheryl, Co-founder said…
- Hi Kycie, I wanted to welcome you to Alopecia World. I can honestly say that we are a great community here and I hope you enjoy the time you spend with us and we look forward to your input. Be sure to check out "10 tips for getting the most out of Alopecia World” which include a few tips to get you started! Cheryl, co-founder
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