I'm not sure what form of alopecia I have, but I've been thinning on top of my crown for a while now - and it has been pretty devastating. I'm also a female, butch, overweight (I'm working on it) and now ...thinning in the wrong areas (I wish I was losing weight! haha). How are people dealing with jobs while being gay, and dealing with alopecia at the same time?
More and more I'm thinking of focusing my career toward more freelance opportunities - that way I can be me at whatever stage.
Luc